Preparation

How to prepare for an ileostomy

An ileostomy is a big change physically and mentally, and getting used to it can take time. Asking questions and talking about your worries before the operation can help you adjust to life afterwards.

Seeing a stoma nurse

Before an ileostomy you'll usually see a stoma nurse at the hospital where the surgery is happening.

The stoma nurse will usually:

• look at and feel your tummy to find the best position for your stoma - they'll mark the area with long-lasting ink so the surgeon can see it (called "siting your stoma")
• give you information about the operation and answer any questions you have
• give you different types of stoma bags to try and show you how to use them
• give you the contact details of the stoma nurses at the hospital
• tell you how to prepare for the operation

It might help to practice wearing and changing a stoma bag at home before the surgery. This can help build your confidence and test whether it causes any skin problems like itching or a rash.

Preparing your bowel for surgery

Your stoma nurse or hospital admission department should send you information about how to get ready for ileostomy surgery.

This usually involves following a special diet and possibly taking laxatives in the days before the operation. This is so your bowel is empty on the day of the operation.

If your ileostomy is done as an emergency, you may not be able to prepare for it, but a stoma nurse will be able to support you afterwards.

Find out more about what to expect before your stoma surgery on the Bladder and Bowel Community website.

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